029: Layne Beachley/Life Is The Lesson

“My first six world titles were won in a state of fear. The seventh was won in a state of love.”
I welcomed yet another legend of surfing onto the show for episode 029 when I visited Layne Beachley, one of the Lucky Country‘s most famous and well-loved sporting personalities, at her Manly home.

Seven times ASP world champion, chair of Surfing Australia, ISA Executive Committee member, founder of the Layne Beachley Aim For The Stars Foundation, big wave pioneer; I’ve been lucky enough to speak to some big hitters over the last year, but Layne is right up there.

She’s also, as I discovered when I visited her at her Queenscliff home in December 2017, a funny, insightful and generous presence, keen to share her experiences from an incredible career as candidly as possible.
Among the highlights? Layne on:
- The hard years fighting her corner in the face of surfing’s entrenched sexism and misogyny.
- The difference between working hard and hard work.
- How her first six world titles were won in a “state of fear.”
- The point at which she stopped driving herself so fiercely, and how it led to her seventh and final world crown.
Yep – a great episode this one, with a true action sports legend with tales to tell and lessons to impart. Don’t miss it.
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Show Notes
- Background noise.
- Layne’s amazing back garden and set-up.
- Layne’s quiver.
- The luxury of surfing every day.
- The importance of empowering yourself first and foremost to inspire others.
- Living according to your values….
- …and how it took Layne a long time to understand what those are.
- An early competitive epiphany at Bells.
- The difficulty of matching those expectations to outcome.
- When is enough ever enough?
- “My first six world titles were won in a state of fear. The seventh was won in a state of love.”
- The competitive years as emotional rollercoaster – “there was no consistency of joy.”
- The requirements Layne put on herself to achieve competitive greatness.
- The difference between working hard and hard work.
- Louise Hay’s ideas about allowing joy.
- Hard work as a means of proving oneself worthy of love and belonging.
- Physical breakdown as a catalyst for change.
- “We’d rather be right than happy.”
- The importance of emotional work to reach these new conclusions and change the focus of attention.
- Layne’s blog on choosing to be the person you want to be.
- Scepticism among Layne’s peers – and then praise.
- The difficulty of being a woman surfer during Layne’s career.
- Where the name Manly came from.
- How Layne coped in the male-dominated surfing culture of the time – and thrived in it.
- Self-validation as a hugely powerful driving force.
- The state of the women’s industry back then.
- Industry challenges and everyday sexism Layne faced.
- “They expected me to be a man.”
- ‘Queen of Self Promotion’
- How things have changed for female surfers.
- Honesty barometers, dream thieves and life vampires.
- ”I’m proud of how it’s changed. I didn’t want to have to go through all that shit and it be for nothing”.
- The importance of sharing personal struggles and struggles so people know they aren’t alone.
- Sharing demonstrates a faith in your vulnerability.
- The goals behind the Layne Beachley Aim For The Stars Foundation.
- The gesture that changed Layne’s life and inspired her to set up the Foundation.
- Some of the beneficiaries of Layne’s foundation.
- Becoming Chairperson of Surfing Australia, and what the role entails.
- The goals of Surfing Australia.
- Layne’s view of the impact of surfing in the Olympics.
- How Surfing Australia is helping to organise the route for Aussie surfers to get to the Games.
- Layne’s speaking career and how she fell into it.
- Finding new ones of telling the story and providing insights.
- Layne’s pioneering big wave sessions – including surfing Ours.
- Setting one competitive challenge a year.
- Utilising those challenges to stay in shape – and how that level of expectation has changed with age.
- The importance of being a pioneer and blazing the trail for others to follow.
- The Law of Proximity.
- Layne’s pride in her surfing and post-surfing legacies.
- Future ambitions.
People Mentioned
- Mauricio Gil
- Ken Bradshaw
- Louise Hay
- Sofía Mulánovich
- James Cook
- Lisa Anderson
- Cooper Chapman
- Kirk Pengilly
- Mick Fanning
- Steph Gilmore
- Joel Parkinson
COMPANIES/BRANDS/ORGANISATIONS MENTIONED
- Roxy
- Billabong
- Rip Curl
- Quiksilver
- Sydney Surf Pro
- WSL
- The Old Manly Boatshed
- Layne Beachley Aim For The Stars Foundation
- GG’s Flowers and Hampers
- Surfing Australia
- Queenscliff Boardriders Club
- Parramatta Eels
Waves Mentioned
- Freshwater
- Bells Beach
- Outside Log Cabins
- Waimea
- Sunset
- Pipeline
- Ours